Introducing How Vision and Motivated Abilities Unite Your Multiple Interests — telling Kevin's story — an accountant, filmmaker, theatre director, photographer and facilitator told for twenty years that he had too many interests, until a single weekend revealed his six pursuits were never separate at all. The lesson follows him as he traces the thread beneath his many interests, names the purpose it serves, and learns to pursue it on purpose — and shows how discovering the single purpose beneath your multiple interests can transform a working life from scattered to coherent.
How Do I Turn a Client Into a Partner?
Hayato was a commercial photographer, twenty years in, and the work came in reliably. A brief would arrive by email: shot list, deliverables, date, budget. He'd turn up, do the job well, deliver on time, invoice. Then another brief would arrive. That is the shape of commercial photography, and there is nothing wrong with it. What wore at him was watching brands he shot for build an entire visual identity, decided by people who had never stood in the places at the times of day when those places became themselves. He knew things about those brands nobody had asked him. Then a woman in her sixties stopped him before he opened his laptop — and he found out what happens when you ask instead of show.
How Seeing Differently Reveals Your Origin Story
The complete lesson follows Daphne's full journey — including the pattern she recognised when she looked back at three earlier moments she'd suppressed her different lens, the moment she became a champion for someone else whose unconventional background was being dismissed, and what she finally understood about the origin story that had been developing through every experience she'd been taught to set aside — and shows how you can use the same process to recognise what your own unconventional background has been revealing all along.
Why Do I Keep Getting Passed Over for Promotion?
Fen was a laboratory technician in a large diagnostics lab, and by every measure meant to matter, the best they had. Her results were flawless, her turnaround the fastest, and when a sample was complex or a result didn't look right, it came to Fen — because she caught what others missed. And three times now, the senior role had come up, and three times it had gone to someone else. The third time broke something in her. I'm the best technician here. Everyone says so. Why do I keep getting passed over? She'd decided it must be politics. She was half right — it had nothing to do with the quality of her work. But it wasn't politics either.
WorkLife Stories from School of WorkLife Issue 10
This week: Seven stories: one about work that goes unnoticed — a teaching assistant whose value had become invisible; one about why clients don't come back — a structural engineer who had spent twenty-six years delivering faultless work; one about getting people to really listen — a science teacher whose students were perfectly pleasant and entirely elsewhere; one about productive disagreement — a collaborative leader questioning whether being heard was the same as thinking together; one about what it actually means to coach yourself — a facilitator exploring the difference between reflection and self-coaching; one about eight months to my next WorkLife chapter — a month into an experiment in writing, new work, coaching and travel; and one about how we know when we've changed — a woman who noticed her response was no longer the one she would once have had. One Story Lesson — How Vision and Motivated Abilities Survive When Your Industry Doesn't. One resource in Professional Self-Coaching — Prove the Value You Create.
Professional Development: How Do We Know When We’ve Changed?
Professional Development: How Do We Know When We've Changed? Nancy begins to recognise that some of the most meaningful changes in her working life aren't captured by qualifications or achievements.
Introducing Prove the Value You Create
A new resource in Professional Self-Coaching: Prove the Value You Create. There's a particular kind of frustration that has nothing to do with whether you're good at your work — it comes from having the capability to do something well and being kept from using it. A budget cut, a mandated template, a compressed timeline: the conditions won't let your capability operate, and the work falls short of what you know it could be. It isn't self-doubt; you know you could do better, you just can't yet prove it. This resource takes you from recognising that your capability is being prevented rather than lacking to proving — with evidence rather than argument — that your natural traits are worth the investment. Because a value that isn't visible yet is not a value that isn't real.
How Do I Get People to Really Listen to Me?
Kojo was in his third year of teaching science, and better at it than his Thursday afternoons suggested. He knew his subject properly, he'd worked in a lab before he trained, and he could explain a concept three different ways until one of them fitted. When he was observed, the feedback was good. And in front of him was a room of fifteen-year-olds who were perfectly pleasant and entirely elsewhere — copying what he wrote, answering when asked, and forgetting all of it. The same misconception would reappear a fortnight after he'd spent twenty minutes taking it apart. Until a Friday when he was too tired to teach the lesson properly, and told it backwards instead. What happened in that room showed him what makes people lean in rather than sit politely. How do I get people to really listen to me? Clear explanation isn't enough on its own. Kojo's story shows what makes people lean in rather than sit politely
Eight Months to My Next WorkLife Chapter
The next chapter of my WorkLife is beginning to write itself. There are things happening, things developing and things that haven't happened yet. And there are new questions now about where the writing will take me, what other opportunities might emerge and how I continue to build a WorkLife that gives me the freedom I'm looking for.
Self-Coaching What Does It Actually Mean to Coach Yourself?
Kathleen spent much of her working life helping other people develop. After delivering a management development programme, one participant said something that stayed with her: "I wish I could coach myself like that." The comment prompted Kathleen to ask a question of her own: What does it actually mean to coach yourself? What followed is a story about the difference between reflection and self-coaching — and why asking ourselves better questions can change how we learn from our working lives.
