The prototype crashed in front of the client. In the silence that followed — Leon’s risk assessment sat open on his laptop. Every problem they were experiencing. Clearly outlined. Four weeks earlier.
In this episode of The Stories Behind the Stories, I go deeper into methodical thinking as a character trait — not what it cost Leon to hold firm under pressure, but what it created. For the project. For the team. For the culture that finally understood that speed and quality were never opposites.
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What Stories Should I Tell in a Job Interview?
Emeka had earned his place in the final round — twenty years, plant floor to management, a track record he didn’t need to inflate. The problem was the room: four other candidates, every one of them at the top of their game, because at final round that’s the entry fee.
The first evening he reviewed his prepared answers and read them back out loud — and heard that any one of the five could deliver them. What he went looking for across the next five evenings was different: what only he could say.
How to Discover Your Origin Story When Opportunity Meets Support
The complete lesson follows Daisy’s full journey — including the pattern she discovered when she looked back at three earlier catalysts she’d dismissed, the moment she became a champion for someone else facing the same crossroads, and what she finally understood about the professional superpowers she’d been developing all along. It shows how you can use the same process to discover and begin telling your own origin story — recognising the catalysts that have been pointing toward your authentic professional purpose, and understanding how the right champion makes it possible to explore them.
What Is Self-Coaching?
Orla had ten days. A director role opening up, a case to make to the leadership team — and a life that wasn’t going to pause for it: work, family – a life already full. What she had was one quiet hour each evening after the house went silent, a twenty-five-minute bus ride, and a notebook. On the first night she wrote a question at the top of a page, and rejected her own first answer. What she found beneath it — and what she built from it across ten days of snatched moments — is a story about self-coaching: the practice of asking yourself the questions that bring clarity, finding your own answers, and acting on what you learn.
Introducing Professional Self-Coaching
Get the Job — Professional Self-Coaching for Job Interviews.
You have an interview. It matters. You know you have the experience. You know you can do the job. Get the Job takes you, step by step, from your experience to three prepared professional stories — your success, failure and passion stories — so you walk into your interview able to communicate your value, your character and your potential with clarity and confidence.
Each story is built the way memorable stories are built: a powerful beginning that hooks attention in the first sentence, an engaging middle that holds it, and a memorable ending that’s still in the room after you’ve left it.
And you finish with more than the stories themselves. You finish with a question map connecting your stories to fifteen common interview questions, with a prepared way into each. Three lengths of every story — from a 30-second essence to the full telling. Your thread — the professional identity that runs through all three. Your integrated answer to “tell me about yourself.” And your Interview Page — a single page to review on the morning of your interview, with a complete story standing behind every sentence.
What Comes Naturally to You Without Effort?
What comes naturally to you without effort? In this episode of The WorkLife Question, I sit with David and the question — exploring what it costs when the thing that feels most natural to you goes unnamed. Not just for you. For everyone around you.
The Stories Behind the Stories: Mary
Mary had always noticed who was left out. Who hesitated before speaking. Who might benefit from knowing someone they’d never thought to approach. In this episode of The Stories Behind the Stories, I go deeper into the character traits at the heart of Mary’s story — community building, connection and collaboration instincts. And why the most significant professional contributions are sometimes the ones that feel like simply paying attention.
How Research-Based Reading Strengthens Connection and Develops Collaborative Intelligence
The complete lesson follows Phoebe’s full journey — including how insights from The Culture Code changed how she approached her team, her peers, and her own manager — and what she discovered when she returned to the book several months later. It shows how you can apply the same perspective in your own work — learning to recognise the signals that either build or break psychological safety, and respond with the connection intelligence that many leadership challenges quietly require.
What Makes Someone’s Stories Visible to Them?
What makes someone’s stories visible to them? In this episode of The WorkLife Question, I explore what Rachel discovered — that the stories which transform how a business sees itself are always already there. In the work already done. In the values already lived. What makes them visible is a question asked from genuine curiosity about what’s already present. And once visible, the business impact wasn’t incremental. It was transformational.
The Stories Behind the Stories: Mark
Mark had spent six months becoming someone he wasn’t. Mrs. Chen stopped him in one question. What happened to the advisor who helped us understand our finances instead of just managing them? Because when Mark sat with a client — he didn’t just manage their money. He helped them understand what it meant for their lives.That took empathy. Methodical thinking. A gift for making complexity accessible.Three character traits. That he had been trying to abandon.
In this episode of The Stories Behind the Stories, I go deeper into the character traits at the heart of Mark’s story — empathy, methodical thinking and a gift for making complexity accessible. And why adaptability as a character trait isn’t about becoming someone different. It’s about understanding who you are deeply enough to find new ways of expressing it.